After an incredibly frustrating experience trying to use a knock-off IR USB adapter on my Forge w/ a Harmony Remote, I recently bought a Flirc USB adapter and extension cable. The Flirc was fairly easy to setup and is working perfectly with Kodi, though I will have to reprogram a key in the O/S as it doesn't seem to have a "back" or "exit" function.
I'm surprised you're still using a Forge and didn't return it.